Annoying you again as I’m in hibernation mode and I need to confess few things.
As simple it sounds, more complex it gets.
Whatever the thing maybe when we get dependent on someone or something we start expecting no matter how strong or weak we are emotional.
From nowhere something starts to cook-up in our minds, those damn “expectation”.
We expect people according to our imagination and when we don’t get our required attention our so-called “emotions” got hurt.
Always wanting more disease.
We never get satisfied of what we are having right now all we are concerned about is the “best”, we know that this concept of best is like “mirage” yet we fool around to chase it regardless of what we have currently.
Just like that, we ruin our momentary happiness in order to go after what we won’t get.
It happens to all of us at some point of life but still, we don’t learn.
“Validate me, daddy!” , “Validate me, honey!”, “Validate me xyz”!
We never stop to validate us whatever the reason may be. no damn, for sure it feels good to be validated. It makes us feel something when we haven’t got anything to make us feel special.
Becoming Wise Issue.
Everyone is so concerned about the lives of others not knowing that you owe nothing to that person and probably you’re thinking you’re adding a significant part to their life whereas the reality maybe you’re adding more to the difficulties of the other person.
Sometimes it is more wiser step to give people their required space.
Let them speak, whatever they want to. Let their things come out of their minds for once. Listen, listen patiently! don’t interrupt.
Why we cannot act like a child?
We are never too old to act like a child it is really fun to switch yourself to a little kid for a while *no bad vibes* sometimes you just have released all the tensions or at least not to think about it for a while. forget your status, forget your appearances, forget about your ex or exes, forget about your bad past and forget that you have to act like an adult.
Maintaining Status Tantrums.
We are so obsessed with the idea of maintaining status, most of the things we do these days come from the intent to show-off our things.
It definitely acts as a boost to our egos and works as a weapon to kill someone’s self-esteem but pulling out a war won’t bring any peace. Never ending battle gets started and we fight like cats over the things we don’t have control over and a waste majority of our times just showing off the things and not living in the moment.
Peeping into someone else life.
I don’t understand why people can’t simply mind their businesses. People should understand that the other people have their own lives and probably chances are that their lives are better than yours but the thing is that comparing to your lives with theirs won’t make you any good person in response to it you will make your life more troublesome and will get stuck in constant loop of overthinking. Don’t interfere in someone else life but be ready to support them whenever they need you. don’t be a jerk.
Being a good human.
Most importantly we need to realize that we all are good in some way although we don’t realize our own importance. the only thing we are good at is underestimating yourself.
It doesn’t matter that what the other people think of you as a person, you can’t change their opinions even if you try to. be opinionated about yourself. don’t do self-harm.
Love others too but don’t forget to beautify your own soul because you deserve it, we all deserve it.
There are plenty of things that we can as a human but we need to realize that doing anything at the cost of making ourselves sad/ depressed/anxious is of no use. better care for yourself!
Thanks for Reading.