Let’s Talk!

As in my earlier blogs, I wrote about how we are so occupied by negative thoughts,
low self-esteem, toxic opinions, comparison and more like things.

In our daily hectic routine, We often ignore our friends and family. At the moment
we do not realize but later on, we regret doing it.

No one is too busy that he/she does not talk but still, we do not understand giving 10-20
minutes to someone that needs guidance, advice, care and affection.
Doing this doesn’t cost but the chances are that the person you’re backing up will be there when you need them in your bad times.

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“When you don't talk, there's a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
  • You don’t realize the value of something until it happens to you. Don’t wait for a perfect time,
    You want to talk then go ahead. (Ring them, Message them). Let them know they matter.It’s not mandatory or compulsory that you contact a person only in their bad times to give sympathy.
    Talk to them when possible and please don’t hesitate. I repeat don’t hesitate!
    You never know what the other person is thinking maybe he/she is also having the urge to talk to you or maybe they want someone to talk. BREAK THE BARRIER.
    Try to be the one to message. You probably realize that forward is easier than its sounds.

    But, sometimes we see that it is difficult to initiate conversation.
    What can be done?

  • Find or date someone crazy like you are. Someone who can understand you better and with whom who you’re free to share whatever you want without any formalities.
    Although it’s not necessary that it is compulsory to date someone there are also other substitutes but it is the
    ultimate choice one can have.
    Note: Be careful whom you date, Don’t hurry. Find someone who you find reliable.
  • Step out of your comfort zone and self-assumed facts about someone or something. It is not necessary that the
    Assumptions you have for a person is always right. (Don’t believe in rumors, DON’T)
  • It is not an immediate process, It will take time. Don’t Fall for someone too easily so that you have regret later on.

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What if you’re shy?
If you are shy in nature, chances are that you fear socializing with people. You should try going outside,
making eye contact with strangers (Don’t confuse eye-contact with staring, Staring is different it’ll put you in trouble). Try talking to the stranger by the stranger I mean someone which is completely stranger to you so that you’ll never
see that person again so you don’t have to worry even if you make yourself a fool. 😛 😀

Unwanted Fears?
You can get rid off unwanted fear if you set the low expectation from a person you’re talking.
But give 100% out of yourself.

Don’t Be Like This:

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Maybe if you’re not getting reply, the other person is busy on some other job or doing some stuff. Chances are they will reply you later. 😛

Don’t s :
1) Don’t just react, be careful about what you said.
2) Don’t jump to conclusions. First, listen what the other person wants to say. Be open-minded.
3) Don’t Argue. Argument counts in negative behavior, it only makes things complicated. By arguing, the interest of another person will be lesser to talk with you.
4) Respect the person you’re talking. Treat others the way they would like to be treated.
5) Don’t be too harsh while talking. Look for what is good and say something about it.

Keeping things within self-does the harm. It breaks you from inside and questions your ability to trust other peoples.
You will feel better once you tell all the things that are going inside yourself to somebody.

NOTE: Be careful with whom you are sharing your all information. Don’t trust blindly.

So, next time when you’re having a bad time or you’re just bored, ping your buddies and check what they are up to.Tell your things and ask out theirs. Bond of friendship will grow, you will feel more relaxed.Talk before it’s too late…

With Love
xx

Don’t Compare! Be Prepare.

"The Moment you accept yourself, you grow"

We all are born with something in ourselves. Everyone is unique in their own way. But we always think that the other person has better life and lifestyle than us.

"We torture ourselves needlessly by comparing ourselves needlessly by
 comparing ourselves to others"

We should worry less about what others are doing and focus on our own progress. Please note everyone is different and everything changes if you are lacking someday today you’ll get it tomorrow.

 

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The Past has nothing to do with your present and your Future.

"Comparison is the thief of joy"
Take time to love yourself, 
And everything will be okay! Right?
"Don't let other people tell who you are."

The comparison is not a one-way type of process, the comparison also has its different type of ways, may it be in the form financial-comparison, looks-comparison, lifestyle-comparison or in academic-area.

"Someone Else's success does not equal your own failure"

Right?

A comparison is not always bad but we should know the difference between Good Comparison and Bad Comparison.

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"You're not required to fit someone Else's definition of perfect.
 Being Yourself is good enough"

So, What is Good Comparison and Bad Comparison?

  •  Good Comparison:  Comparison in kindness, joyfulness, and enjoyment is good like if he/she explored that(some) place and he/she told you that the place was fun, then you should try it.
  •  Bad Comparison:  Comparison which adds to your stress level and makes you feel bad and low are not good in any way. That type of comparison kills.

    Worrying about your body?

"ALL BODIES ARE GOOD BODIES

How to become extremely beautiful?

Stop Comparing yourself to others, Babe!

Love the skin you’re in :))

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Don’t look where others are in their journey. Don’t compare your chapter to theirs. You are on your own path and are exactly where you need to be.

Listen, it’s okay to be different in fact it’s one of the best qualities a person can have.  Be Yourself Damn-it!

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REMEMBER :

*   You are not your parents
*   You are not your friends
*   You are not your mate
*    You are unique
*   Let yourself be yourself

You don’t need to be everyone’s favorite, until and unless you are your own favorite. Be the person of your choice and not the one society wants you to be.

We used to be Child. Not now!

Childhood: What’s that?

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Gone are the days when we used to stay outside from our home all day in bright sunlight on those summer days. Remember when mamma used to shout at us “Come Inside, Eat some food! ”

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But sadly, Things changed drastically the and it took our childhood somewhere, too far, too far that it is lost somewhere…..
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Image Source: Google Images

It upsets me when I see these days little children playing with their 21 st century electronically controlled toys. 😦

That little child imagination we used to hold was lost somewhere. I can’t see that anymore!

'Childhood is the only time when you are free'

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But those who grew up by counting likes on their social media handles, how will they know the value of satisfaction we felt when we used to return home and drink the cold water after playing for so long outside…

Childhood is an important part of our life where we learn about new things from scratch.

We make new friends, We make mistakes, We laugh, We cry…..

Causes: 

  • I won’t blame children’s alone parents are also responsible for killing innocent childhood. If parents become more aware of the development of their little one at the earlier stage then half of the problem will be solved.Ill-Effects:
  • These Children are not interested in making new contacts and they like more to be left alone rather than being with friends and family. It is okay to enjoy self-company but spending too much time alone deprive us of basic human emotions which we realize later in our lives. They don’t feel comfortable sharing their mind with anyone. They are more likely to develop stress more easily.What can you (Parents)/we(Children) can do?

    *  Try to spend more time (quality/time) with friends and family.
    *  Make sure they are not left alone for so long.
    *  Make new friends.
    *  Balanced use of Technology (Avoid Indulging in Tech for so long without any valid reason)
    *  Try to spend some time outside house (At least on weekends)

    Childhood is a time which we remember when we get old, make sure it is worth remembering. Enrich your Imagination while you’re young, you won’t get this time later son.

    With Love xx

Detox Yourself.

Competition. Corruption. Addiction. Jealousy. 
We are occupied by these things so completely that we ruined our inner self.

We've lost our Inner-Child somewhere. No time for ourselves, no time for family,
no time for friends. Where are we heading, we don't know?
1Image Source: Google Images

 

What can we do to make our lives less toxic?

1) Start doing something new every day, Engage yourself in some activity so that you don’t have any time for over-thinking.

2) Stop arguing with Self-Obsessed people, Be smart enough to walk away from them don’t be afraid by doing so.
* Toxic Friendship will always bring you down and make you feel low and bad even though it’s not your fault.
* Make Good Friends and Be selective whom you call the friend.

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”
― Jim Rohn

3) Don’t try to be over smart.

*Over-smartness never benefits you in any way although at the end you left with feeling low self-esteem.

*Don’t think you can change each and every one person, you can only advice people you can’t change everybody and anybody.

4) Forget the past, Embrace the future.
* There is no point of remembering the past if it is not sweeter.
* Getting Indulged in the past and not focusing on future will not gonna take you anywhere.
* Get over your past, Start living in present, Think about future.

5) Be Self-Dependent
* Don’t depend on anybody for small things, do things on your own.
even if you fail, you don’t have anybody to blame.

6) Admit you’re Wrong.
*Most the fights happen only because we are not ready to admit we’re wrong.
*Sometimes admitting that you’re wrong prevents you from further circumstances.
*You’re not 100% perfect, you can be wrong at certain moments.

7) Choose a healthy lifestyle.
*By healthy lifestyle, I mean you should follow a lifestyle that is good for both your mental as well as physical health.
*Practice Deep Breathing.
*Stay Away from Negative thoughts. (Stay Away from Negative People)
*Party Hard, Party often but be sure that you’re not partying at the risk of your life. Everything is good until it is in control.

8) Start to take care of your body and your thoughts.
*You’re defined by your thoughts. Good Thoughts=Good Life.
*Healthy mindset is essential for your future.

So in the world full of people you don't need to so popular to be happy, always 
remember happiness lies inside our body and soul. So be happy don't care what 
people think about you.

People are never satisfied with their own life so why are you expecting that they
can be happy with yours?

Enjoy as much as you can. Hug the people around you. Spread happiness as much 
as you can.

You're here to create memories.
-With Love xx


Hey Dad!

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Day by day we’re getting apart from our parents and in the race of life, we often forget how this man is sacrificed
his whole life to see the happiness on our face.
You didn’t have an idea, how proud this man feels when he sees his children getting ahead and being happy in life.
But we often ignore this man, whatever the reason could be.

He works all day and when he come home all his stress is eradicated by our sweet little smile.
He reduces his needs so we can fulfill ours and moreover, he doesn’t want anything in return (How Selfless?).
He is the one who wants the betterment of his children and he never wants his little one to be sad.

HEY,DAD. 

Listen, Man , nothing matters like you,
I've always thought of a life with you. 
You are my inspiration and my soul is a piece of you,
So forgive me for my mistakes if I have committed few.

You've always fulfilled my wishes and bought me what I like,
And you've always got my back when I was feeling low on life.
Always stay with me and never ever stop those sweet high-fives,
I'm your little piece and I'm still learning about life.

Listen, Man , nothing matters like you,
When everyone was blaming me you were the one who said "It's all right";
You have always believed in me, You will always be my "Knight"!
As you grow old, I'll make sure that I am treating you right.

You've given me the strength to be me,
You chased away my tears when I fell and skinned my knee.
Mom is lucky to get a husband like you. Isn't she?
Always be with us, with you we are Great Family. :)

So Next Time?

So, Father's Day is not enough to thank this man for what he have done for us.
So next time you're feeling low , Go to your Superhero (He'll Heal You) <3
Respect Your Dad , Love Your Dad. He will give you both 2x More. xx

 

Boards Dilemma & How To Handle?

“Talent is cheap; dedication is expensive. It will cost you your life.”

Boards are approaching fast and pressure from peers and parents are at its peak once again. Relatives are once again batting their eyes on how good you’re performing.

So here are some sort of advice on how to maintain your chill and concentrate on
what is required:
1) Take adequate amount of sleep.
-Most of you guys are pulling up all-nighters again spending all day on the bed.
Isn’t it? See understand your body cycle and work according to it, check wheather you are early bird or night owl.
Not taking enough sleep will significantly reduce your efficiency and make you lousy.
2) Avoid Eating too much.
-Eating too much will slow down your body and you will feel dull and will not
be able to concentrate on topic properly.
Preferred Diet–>
(i)Take well-balanced diet and try to eat lighter meals as it will help you to
maintain good focus.
(ii)Eat light snacks in between.
(iii)Last but not the least, Drink lots of Water. (Stay Hydrated)

3)  Avoid spending too much time on Social Media.
-It’s Hard to avoid social media these days as urge too peep in the phone is too strong. So let’s reduce the time spent on social media.
-If it’s not possible to reduce time spent on social media involve your parent
in the process (They can help too 🙂 )

4) Don’t fix/stick to the timetable insanely.
-Listen you’re not the robot , so don’t worry if you do not the complete task on time.
-Study when you feel comfortable (Work according to your body cycle)

5) Don’t let comparison kill your vibe.
-Comparison is good until and unless it is in a positive aspect when it goes
beyond that, it is harmful as it do not add to something beneficial and adds
to stress.

At last, stay calm and work according to your body cycle. Do not take too much
stress about the boards it is just an examination.

Best of Luck and do well. 🙂